Does it hurt when someone calls you fat?

I hate this word ‘fat’. I wish it would never exist. Being called fat hurts like anything, I had gone through this pain. When I was in school my classmates used to make fun of me because I was fat. I got scared of playing with other kids because I could not run fast. No body want to be in my team while playing. I was the only one in my team. Once one of my so called friend made fun of me by saying ‘guys she could not even walk properly, let alone running so we won’t play with her’. I was in tears, it hurts badly. I will never forget her words. Even my father used to taunt me about my weight. My family was not supportive enough except my mom. 

 Let me share you one more incident that left me in tears. One day when I was having my lunch my aunty commented on me saying ‘you have been eating from past half an hour, how much more you will eat’. I stop eating at that very moment and ran towards washroom so that nobody can see me crying. Just because I was fat does not mean I don’t feel bad. Why people are so hurtles? I used to think the girls who are naturally slim are so lucky because they can eat anything. Moreover they don’t have to go through the pain of being fat.

I decided to lose weight when I reached college and yes I did reduce weight a lot. It was not easy as I had to give up on all my favorite food. Now when my school friends see my pictures on Facebook or meet me, they just can’t believe that I become so slim. They actually give compliments to me. And I feel great. 

I never make fun of anybody just because he or she is fat. You have no right to hurt someone feeling. You can’t judge people based on their body type. I felt like slapping people right on their face when they make fun of someone because of their physical appearance. Who the hell are you to judge other?

I know I am not alone who had to go through this. There are thousands of people like who have been going through this suffering. Today I want to hear your story. Have you gone through this pain? How did you feel? How you have deal with it?

Always remember you are beautiful the way you are. You are the princess of someone heart and always be no matter what other say.